I'm looking to go to a gay bar or gay bathhouse to explore my sexuality. My question: is this safe? In terms of the bathhouse as long as everyone wears protection everything is good right? I'm not going to get raped in there, right?
And gay bars aren't dangerous or anything right? |
Promiscuous sex isn't safe. Anal sex is particularity unsafe if you are promiscuous. I suggest you don't do this. I doubt you would be raped in a bath house but even with a condom you can still get an std. Condoms can fail exposing you to any bacteria or virus' your partner may have. There are other ways to explore your sexuality.
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How to open a Gay Bathhouse? We'd like to open a gay bathhouse-anyone with tips on how to do it? What it takes, legal / police issues, etc. (Oh, no need to tell me 'why not' to, thanks) |
| Before you spend any money or make any extensive plans, you need to contact the department of health in your area and find out if its going to be allowed in the first place. |
Alright. So I'm looking to either go to a gay bar or a gay bathhouse to explore my sexuality. Is this safe? In terms of the bathhouse as long as everyone wears protection everything is good right? I'm not going to get raped in there, right?
And gay bars aren't dangerous or anything right? |
| I'd suggest the gay bar, nothing against bath houses, but I'd feel more comfortable making decisions about future relationships when I'm fully clothed to start out with, at least |
Where can i find a gay bathhouse in alberta? i want to know where they are so i can go to it of course! |
| If you would take the intitiative & go to AOL Search - and type in - Gay Bathhouse In Alberta, Canada - a page will pop up with all kinds of websites for you to select from. See? Wasn't that easy??? |
Have you visited a gay bathhouse? What was your impression? Was it sleazy or comfortable place to relax and have fun? |
Sleazy, scary.. even if it was extremely clean and brightly lit.
After trying to relax in the sauna and having the 5th? disgustingly fat old man try and hook-up with me, I left. Im ashamed that i ever went there. |
Is it OK to be straight or a little bicurious and go to a gay bathhouse? I'm in my 40's and am straight/curious. Decided to workout at a gay bathhouse.I worked out in these tight shorts and no shirt. After working out I went into the steamroom, a lot of guys were hitting on me and I would tell them no. Sometimes, I asked them to jerkoff and finger their assholes. I had a couple fo guys blow me but I didn't get hard. I would push them off. Is this rude behavior? If I go there should I be expected to at least suck a cock? |
| I agree with Adqban that you're a repressed gay man and that you should be telling your wife/girlfreind that you have been going to a gay bathhouse. Even getting head can transmit an STD (the risks are there, like it or not). Please be polite when interacting with the folks around you. How would you like it if people told you off the way you do others? Besides, if you do have a wife or girl freind you're cheating on her and for that alone you ought to be ashamed of yourself. |
Should i go to a gay bathhouse? Im 17 years old and am 95% sure im gay. Im closeted and feel that visiting a bathhouse would let me experiment. Im 18 next month and was thinking of going to one soon. Should i go and please give me some advice? also can you suggest any in the uk? thanks |
Sure Why Not?
Sounds Fun! :) |
Has anyone here ever been to a gay bathhouse? there's one in my city i just found out about and i'm kinda curious... i wanna go. has anyone here ever been? how is it? |
| No, I don't know where any are and I have no desire to go to any. I'm saving my pennies to go see a pyramid. |
Gay Bathhouse (Gay Sauna) in London (soho?)? please recommend currently (!) good gay bathhouse/ gay sauna to visit. i hope it is safe and busy. thanks. any website is great. hope near central LONDON |
www.outeverywhere.com/
May be able to help |